"While watching, they had questions, and I explained to them in a very adult manner what was happening," said Lani. "I told them their brother Jolo was now a father, but explained to them that he is not married to the baby's mother. I wanted them to learn the lesson in this."

She says that if they have a second child, it would "no longer be an [accident]"

The father had other words:

Senator Revilla said he also warned Jolo about having premarital sex.

"I asked him to refrain from having sex," said Bong. "He's still too young for that. I didn't blame Jolo for what happened. That's not my style. But I warned him that I'll wring his neck if he has another baby while he's still a minor and not prepared for it."

"Let this serve as a lesson to other kids, not only my children," Bong added. "The youth should act responsibly and not get themselves into situations like this. While having a baby is a good thing, this should happen at the right time. In Jolo's case, it's too early for him to be having a baby. But we've accepted the situation, and we're happy to be grandparents, Lani and I.